Last night I was talking to a friend.

kinda gossiping if you would like to call it..

and we were talking about a relationship that seems like a rollercoaster and she said.. that they put up with each other because they love each other..

This question then struck me…. Why do we put ourselves through hard, confusing, heartbreaking times, for love?

I decided to use my Google Power and look up the true definition of love.. it came up with 

a strong positive emotion of regard and affection;

hmmmm.. 

So people argue, they get into fights, they pick on each other… and they put themselves  in soo much stress..

but  its okay… because were they are in love? 

Why do we use love to Justify.. something that isn’t the greatest. 

I read something in that definition that kind of does the opposite of justifing.. 

That something I read was the word POSITIVE

 a strong POSITIVE emotion… 

then why do we call fighting and arguing Love..or at least justify the fighting and arguing by love.

I’m not sure why this hasn’t crossed my mind before.. But i find this all quite absurd. I know that most couples that are in love dont always fight.. but when it becomes something that happens constantly..

Next time .. think to yourself… IS this .. A STRONG POSITIVE emotion of affection?

idk maybe because I’m single(and lovin it) I don’t truely understand.. I’m not one to fight.. you piss me off once.. ill talk to you about it.. ill forgive.. you piss me off twice.. i talk to you about it . and we are most likely done. 

I mean thats only with big problems.. 

little problems.. i couldn’t really give a shit a bout them.. I’m not going to let them come between me and my love life.. 

well i guess, my conclusion on this.. is 

1. people justify problems with love because they don’t want to admit to having a problems.

2. opposites attract and disagree and fight but can still love 

3. I’m just weird and my googleing power isnt as strong as i thought it was 

I guess .. Too each is own..

xoXo 

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